As the old earth begins to give up the ghost and we begin to understand that the life experience that we were birthed into is non TRUTH (as in it is non organic and natural) then we will find ourselves standing at a wall of grief.

Grief comes in a myriad of different forms, from the very obvious death of a loved one to the more hidden grief in response to dreams that die, to opportunities that were never seized, there are a million and one ways to experience grief. The weight of grief over time is akin to wearing a large coat on a hot summers day, it can feel almost suffocating.

We become blind to the grief that we carry because the weight of the coat in the example above is not instant, it may feel like a light weight jacket to begin with, a sense that something has been added to life that makes it heavier but not seeing what it is exactly. This lightweight jacket begins to feel part of us, we may alter it slightly so it sits on our shoulders better. Over the years we may put experiences akin to stones in the pockets of the jacket and then it begins to weigh us down. As we have become used to wearing the grief we can no longer imagine what it would be like to not wear it.

This is where many who have experienced trauma and death stand, wishing for life before the grief, the feeling of feeling more care free and lighter but in fear of letting go of the heavy weight of grief “lest they forget”. In the case of grief as the result of a physical death of a loved one, letting go of the grief actually brings their spirit closer than it does holding on. The human brain tricks us into thinking we are doing them a disservice or somehow being disrespectful by taking off the coat of grief. Letting the grief go allows the loved one to transcend fully into the next experience. Spirit NEVER dies, it is possible to hold a loved one in a period of transition for too long by holding on to their human life experience. View it akin to a chord that holds them to the human life experience but does not allow them to fully leave it, they stand half way thru a doorway.

LOVE in TRUTH is a powerful force, it is the very fabric of the universe. Life must be lived fully, those who pass over the veil experience NO pain, NO regret, they are washed clear of all of that when they transition fully. As we are prevented from going thru the doorway into the next life experience we do not readily accept this. There are many who would prey on the grief of those who are caught in the web of grief and this must also be understood.

When a loved one has fully transitioned they will usually try to make some sort of contact with those left on this side of the veil. Whether this be in the dream landscape or thru physical experience that triggers the memory of the loved one. (think of tobacco smoke suddenly smelt that a relative smoked, a favourite flower appearing etc).

We are asked at this time to become aware of the coat of grief that we wear. To acknowledge its heaviness and to allow the Archangels to step forward to help us out of the coat. Only then can we fully understand the depth of weight that we carried. Once freed from the weight we can align more fully and reconnect at a new and more peaceful level understanding that life is fluid, whilst we are here in a human form we have life to live before one day it is our turn to stand at the door and walk thru it.

We can then walk thru the wall of grief as we become lighter than it, what is beyond the wall of grief? Life…

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Kx